How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 04:06
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
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Do not set goals—set systems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Has any man licked his wife's vagina while another man had sex with her?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What I need from you?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Why did Obito, a supposed "bad person," do good things for Kakashi?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
He said he loves me, but why is it difficult for him to leave his wife?
Making more friends is a goal.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
That's it for today.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What is the dirtiest thing you have allowed your husband to do?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Ask yourself:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Isn't it a turn on to have sex with a girl in a skirt or in a tight spandex?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What is it that gives a man who is a submissive cock sucker his most pleasure?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.